The boyfriend has become a little more understanding of my situation but has somehow managed to talk me round to his way of thinking. A baby would not be best at this point in my life, and as far as I can see, it would only put a strain on what is far from a stable relationship as far as I'm concerned.
So as a compromise, I'm considering an abortion and getting a cruiser bike instead to be my baby!!
Something like this.....
.....plus its another excuse to wear leather!!!!
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- Wednesday, 30. Apr, 2008 @ 09:36:15
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- Thursday, 01. May, 2008 @ 10:23:00
Thanks Libs.
Its not that I couldn't or wouldn't raise a child on my own - the broken family bit never put me off having my own family, and I've always resigned myself to the fact that I will more likely than not end up as a single mother. However, now is not the time. I have my career and my youth to hold on to for the time being!!!
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I admire your decision to have an abortion. I've thankfully never had to face that decision but i think given my current situation it would be the only option. My best friend Lauren* is due to drop in a few weeks and is doing it on her own. I couldn't, I'd need that stable relationship before I even considered it. Having come from a 'broken home' I don't think it's fair to let a child grow up in an unstable environment.
Good luck to you and if you need to vent, pour out your feelings etc we're all here xxxx